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‘Love, Simon’ review: much more than a coming-out story

By california scoop / Published on Wednesday, 14 Mar 2018 08:19 AM / Comments Off on ‘Love, Simon’ review: much more than a coming-out story / 29 views
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Does 2018 need an earnest coming out story about an upper-middle class cisgender white boy? At face value, “Love, Simon” seems dated.

But the teen comedy — directed by Greg Berlanti, written by Elizabeth Berger and Isaac Aptaker and based on the book “Simon vs. The Homo Sapiens Agenda” by Becky Albertalli — is impossibly infectious, and so much more than just a coming-out story.

The nature of the film itself is political: It’s a necessary and humane representation that foregrounds a queer character’s journey and gives them a swooningly romantic love story to boot. But setting all that aside, “Love, Simon” is simply a fantastic high school comedy that’s grounded, funny and heartwarming.

Nick Robinson stars as the closted title character in "Love, Simon."

Nick Robinson stars as the closted title character in “Love, Simon.”

(Ben Rothstein/Twentieth Century Fox)

Nick Robinson stars as Simon, a senior in high school who’s been privileged with a charmed life — loving parents (Josh Duhamel and Jennifer Garner), a sweet sister (Talitha Eliana Bateman), gorgeous home, inexplicably hip musical taste (The Bleachers frontman Jack Antonoff is the music supervisor) and a clique of awesome friends: Leah (Katherine Langford), Nick (Jorge Lendeborg Jr.) and new girl Abby (Alexandra Shipp).

The only thing that sets Simon apart is his deep, dark secret — he’s lusting after the hunky gardener next door. That’s right, he’s gay. But how, now, with legal gay marriage, a supportive, liberal family and a multi-culti group of cool friends, could that be an issue?

Simon (Nick Robinson) has a sweet family (from let, Talitha Bateman, Jennifer Garner, Josh Duhamel) but that make everything all right in his life.

Simon (Nick Robinson) has a sweet family (from let, Talitha Bateman, Jennifer Garner, Josh Duhamel) but that make everything all right in his life.

(Ben Rothstein/Twentieth Century Fox)

Robinson and the filmmakers make his struggle visceral in a way that might make any viewer check their behavior. Simon winces at every small, joking instance of homophobia, the remarks from his well-meaning, but unaware former jock dad, the jokes about porn and girlfriends, and friends talking about crushes and hot girls. Simon flails, while trying to convey himself as “normal,” i.e. “like everyone else.”

Tonally, the movie exists on a spectrum between warm and winsome “Lady Bird” and the crackling “Mean Girls.” All three films are about the protagonists at the center learning to be themselves fully and freely in the world, struggling against the prison that is the opinion of others. As Simon hems and haws about coming out, he plaintively notes that he’s not ready to lead a different life, or be a different person.


“Love, Simon,” like “Lady Bird” and “Mean Girls,” is a high school story about living one’s truth fully and freely.

(Ben Rothstein/Twentieth Century Fox)

The story’s larger message, aside from tolerance, acceptance and love, is that being yourself and living your truth out loud is good for you, and it’s good for the people around you too. Being closeted means Simon hurts the people closest to him, as he manipulates his friends to keep his secret under wraps. It can be difficult for a viewer to accept that his friends don’t acknowledge just how hard it is for Simon to come out. He’s blackmailed and bullied, but that doesn’t change their expectations of him as a friend. Perhaps that’s the right choice for the film, underscoring that sexuality doesn’t define our morality, but you can’t help but wish they cut sweet Simon a bit of slack.

That’s because Robinson, Berlanti and the writers make Simon such an empathetic and detailed character to whom we can all relate. Ultimately, more than anything else, Simon just wants to be loved. He’s a hopeless romantic risking not only his heart, but his identity, and that’s what makes him a hero worth rooting for.

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